Love is Just a FOUR Letter Word... Or Something Beyond?!

'Love is knowing all about someone and still wanting to be with him more than any other person.'
This is what Love is? Naa...
One entire life is just too less to know a person.
Love can't be defined.
It is just another four letter word that freaks out people.
A school girl goes all gaga over that one glaze of her crush. Some cry for their crush which was never theirs. Few college couple end up spending their LIFE together.
For some Love is-

• an unconditional love from Mother
• holding hands or getting intimate
• travelling, experiencing and exploring the world together
• a walk with a best friend
• stargazing
• the smell of someone else on your pillow

The list would go on and on and never end. Only one percent of people know a little bit deeper and they are Poets, Musicians and Painters. These people can feel the sensitivity of the heart and can feel beyond the body.

Love is  a Feeling (EHSAAS) that is inexpressible. Something which cannot be expressed and just felt. It is something way beyond.

           I felt that same kind of feeling few months back. Someone who could understand my broken sentences. A person who was always ready to take all kinds of risks for me. I had surrendered myself to someone who perfectly fit in my parts which had gone missing in the world. Sitting far away from him, I received positive vibes and love energies from him which always kept me charged up. I was living a life full of dreams.

But then I guess it was all hyped up, Undoubtedly, we share an amazing bond today and we rely upon each other. But things are not same. 

Love is False and just another FOUR letter word for me.

The only person or the only soul whom I love is my own self. 

" MEIN APNI FAVORITE HOON"  a famous dialogue from the film 'Jab We Met'

I firmly believe that no one knows me as much as I know myself. No one cares for me or understands me, apart from ME.

                                      'YOU ARE YOUR OWN LOVE'

CRIPPLING FEAR

What I fear is unusual but deep. I fear relations be it any kind.
I fear getting attached to people. The ones whom I have been close to have parted away. I have begun to consider it a waste of time.
It really makes you sad when someone close to your heart parts and its begun to cripple me.
I sometimes wonder whether it is my fault, but i don't think it is, because if it had been , I would have sorted things out. Its those sudden things that happen. A person suddenly decides to let go and leaves without even a chance of sorting things out.
It hurts me deep and creates a burn in my soul.
 Considering what is happening I find these lines apt:
          " Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
             For only the hand of life can contain your hearts.
              And stand together yet not too near together.
             For the pillars of the temple stand apart.
              And the oak tree and cypress grow,
             Not in each other's shadow."
I have learnt to make friends but not get too attached to them, maybe even fall in love but not inform them about it. A fear that is deep seated within me is Love. It is beautiful but too delicate.
The heart is like a fragile peace of sculpture. I am afraid of giving it to someone, cause they might suddenly decide to go away and I would not able to prevent it. I am afraid to get involved in the delicate layers of love.
The deeper love of the heart is just like a breeze that comes into your room, brings freshness and coolness and then it's gone. You cannot catch hold the wind in your fist.
 It reminds me if these lines:
             " A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Naah. Too painful. Soul  mates, they come to your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave."

' Love an Illusion? '

I read in one of the books of my favorite author - ' Nicholas Sparks ' that " no relationship is easy. But if you're willing to make it work, I am too. I will put in as much effort as you do. I don't think there's even a right time to let someone you love go. I mean if they mean something to you, you should fight through whatever comes your way. You should be willing to do whatever it takes them to keep them in your life. No one ever said that finding " the one " would be a walk in the park. It's hard work. "

                   Was there any effort from your part?

                    Did you try to make it work?

                    I didn't demand any gifts.

                    Neither i did ask for diamonds.

                    All I wanted was You and a bit

                    of your time.

                    I was there with you when no one else was.

                    I was the one who stuck around when 

                      everyone told to leave.

                    I was the one who loved you when 

                      you gave me every reason not to.

                    But now, no more step towards you.

                    You lost the love I loved the most.

                     And I learned to live half alive.

                     Now one can sit and wonder, that

                     everything will work out for the best.!

P.S : a message for all those who truly love someone and had a heartbreak- if two people don't have to be together right now, in a month or in a year if those two people are meant to be, then they will be together somehow at sometime in life. 

' The Hidden Language of the Soul '

Being away from my 'first love' for two years of my life made me realize that without it my life is incomplete. This particular love of mine not only gives me happiness but brings out the passion in me.

I still remember that day -5th October, 2012- Friday. This day will always be remembered and its one of the happiest day of my life. The reason behind this is that I met my love after two years.PHEW! 

This particular love is something with which we can express anything to anyone and impress everybody. Now, I guess you readers must have understood.

Yes, people it's DANCE.

There is this beautiful song sung by two amazing people who are the heads in my very own Dance Institute. The song name is "MY First Love"

Few lines which I would like to dedicate to 'Dance'

   Mera pehla Pyaar hai tu 

   Aankhon ka khumar hai tu

   Dhadkan ki talaash hai tu

   You're my First Love

    Oh baby !!

Amazing it is !!

The freedom of losing myself in the music is indescribable. It takes me to an unimaginable heights. There is no greater feeling than moving to a piece of music and letting the rest of the world disappear. As we Dancers say - 'Dance as if no one is watching.'

While I dance I cannot judge, neither can I hate, nor I can separate myself from my life. I can only be joyful and feel the happiness within me. It brings out the passion in me and the love for it. I'm determined and stubborn about it. There's a desire in me that makes me want to do more and more and to do it perfectly.

A favourite quote of mine which says - " Dance is your Pulse, your Heartbeat, your Breathing. It's the rhythm of your life. It's the expression in the time and movement, in happiness, joy, sadness and envy."

  This quote truly defines me as a Dancer.

I Dance for laughter,

I Dance for tears.

I Dance for love,

I Dance for fears.

I Dance for hopes,

I Dance for dreams.

I am a Dancer and 

Dancers create Dreams.

I firmly believe that Dancers are the Messengers of the God. Dance is the medium through which we can express story without uttering a word, just by our body movements and rhythm of the music.

Dance is ' The Hidden Language of the Soul.'

Whenever I listen to a song, I just feel like putting on my dancing shoes and groove on the beats of it. I am sure there are many such people who start imagining a choreography when they hear a song.

If at times, I am away from my dance class although that rarely happens but if I am, I feel like I have lost a piece of myself. There is restlessness in me and I just feel like running back to the dance floor and take out all the frustration of being away from it. The dance routine that we learn keeps on running on my head all the time. I Dance to be better than myself and this will lead me to Perfection. This can only happen with tremendous hard work.

This goal that I want to pursue made me realize that I don't dance because I want to Dance.

      I DANCE because I Need to... 

DANCE STANDS FOR_

    D- Discipline

    A- Attitude

    N- New

    C-  Confidence

    E- Expressions

If all these elements or emotions are there in your Dance- then I can say that dance that performed will be flawless, awesome. amazing and  impressive.

Would end on a note that - " Believe it or not Dance is a Magic"

P.S. " Put Dance into your Heart, and Dance will never leave your Heart."

' Lets Smile All The Time '

As said by Emory Austin- “Be cheerful, even when you don’t like it.”

We should keep smiling always because we never know, who is falling in love with our smile.

Smile has a beautiful meaning

S- Sweet

M-Magical

I-Innocent

L-Lovable

E-Elegant

A smile is a blessing and a beautiful gift that we must give to ourselves and then pass on to everyone we meet. A Smile breeds multiple Smiles. We also tend to like people who can generate a smile from us.

‘Smiling’ is one of a way to make people like you.

A smile makes people attractive, approachable and full of compassion. It can also help us gain a friend. For instance, a smile from a stranger can help us gain a friend. If we choose to ignore that smile, we miss out on that gift of friendship. It helps us to create good rapport and also gain trust and attention.

A smile opens doors because it helps us to recall happy moments vividly making us optimistic and motivated.

There are certain benefits of smiling and they are: 

•  Makes difficult challenges easily

•   Makes us look younger and beautiful

•    People with a smile appear confident

•    Corrects blood pressure

•  Relieves stress and depression

•   It projects a positive body language

•   And it helps us to remember happy moments.

So true na... It does happen with us at times that a pleasant memory from our past triggers a smile on our face and we keep on lingering on that and allow ourselves to Smile. It helps us to be happy, relaxed and moreover we once again live that moment.

Thus a Smile connects us with a light of inspiration from within.

Now I am going to convey a technique which will help us to ‘Smile All The Time.’

Let us start a day with a smile, and the technique goes as...

‘When we are ready to wake up from our sleep, let’s not open our eyes immediately. Instead we should visualize the happiest moment of our life and think about it for few minutes. We will see our lips getting widen automatically. We should continue visualizing that happy moment with our eyes closed. A little later, we should laugh aloud like a madman! We could feel the positive energy flow inside our body and we will be ready to leave our bed and get up.’

Let us not be afraid what others will say, because even they might be just waiting for us to brighten up their lives. If we begin our day this way, the good feeling will persist for the entire day. I can promise that by practicing this regularly we can see a good change in our mood.

We should utilize this gift from God to the fullest.

Result: When we SMILE our body is sending a message ‘Life is Good' and thus all the negative emotions gets fade away from our mind and soul.

          “Smile an everlasting smile,

            a Smile can bring you near to me...!”

Thus we should keep smiling all time and spread happiness because “A Smile can make a Difference.”

I got an inspiration on writing this topic from my soft skills and personality development courses in my college which takes place.

It has helped me a lot and I promise if u follow it will also help you.

Glittering Eyes

                               

Although a bit late, but still want to share with all of you, about this year’s Christmas.

I always dreamt of visiting a Church or an Orphanage on this day of Christmas. This year Sangvee- the best dance institute of Eastern India made it possible and turned my dream into reality. In this 20 years of my life this year’s Christmas was the best (25^th December 2012).

Yes, I did visit an Orphanage ‘All Bengal Women’s Union and the experience can be summed up in one word i.e. WOW!!!

The everlasting smile on that little kid’s face made me realise that life is too short for regrets. We go on and on complaining about something or the other stuffs. We crib when our demands are not fulfilled and we are tensed when life is full of problems. But these children enjoy each and every second to the fullest. ‘No Complains No Demands.’

They are the God’s children and their heart is extremely pure and serene.

Those pretty ladies walking the ramp, those glittering eyes, that kid’s like smile and the amazing attitude kept me mesmerized. Every lady in there was bestowed with never ending talent and kudos to them to take the whole show sportingly.

After a getting a smile on each person’s face, dancing with them all day and entertaining them made my day.

From the bottom of my heart I would like to thank Sangvee and the other team members for building up such a beautiful day in my life and turning into a memorable which is surely cherishable.

Lesson: Guys whatever we do in our life we should never regret and never complain. WE should Smile All Time and trust me life will be beautiful automatically.

'Falling in Love with Life'

'The Heart of Life ' beautifully sung by John Mayer. This song gives out a message of hope to everyone. I say that Life is not all about pain. Life is harsh but always remember. 'Heart of Life' is good. Despite the corruption, the agony, the hatred and the animosity that confuls everything around us. Sweet souls makes the world a better place. Your own soul is nourished when you are kind, and it is destroyed when you are cruel. Fall in love with Life in the same way you fall in love with another person - you adore everything about them! We fall in love with another person be seeing love, hearing love, speaking love and by feeling only love with all your heart. And that is how we use the ultimate power of love to fall in love with Life! Falling in love with the Life, will unleash the power within us and we will become unlimited and invincible. The purpose of our life is joy and the greatest joy of our life is 'giving'. The one thing we can give is- our love. Our love, our joy, our positivity, our passion, our gratitude and our excitement are the true and everlasting things in life. Even all the riches in the world cannot come closer to the most priceless gift in all creation- the love inside us.! So i would say " Give the Best of You." We came into this world with our love and it is the only thing we take with us.While we are here every time we choose the positive, every time we choose to feel good, we are giving our love and with it we light up the world. The power of love is within us. "You have the greatest force in the universe within you, and with it you will have an amazing life." Instead of cribbing and crying on our grief and pain we should rise up and help others rise up within the power, i.e. our own love. I'll end up with a beautiful quote and it goes by - 'Lust you can order up with a wink, Desire with a smile. But love is love and nothing can touch it because love is powerful my friends.' "The Heart Of Life is Indeed Good!"