friendship is so much more about physical intimacy. It is about being comfortable, and sharing good and bad times, and just connecting with another human being.
Today there remains a question that can a girl and boy be best of friends rather than a fool lover?
I would say yes that a guy and a girl could be the best of friends.
There are people who comment that a guy approaches a girl only to fulfill his sexual desire. But that is so not true. There are teen’s even adults who share good rapport with the opposite sex than the same.
Whether it is relatives or friends stay in the presence of those who help you expand and move away from those who make you wilt. I would rather say True friendships stand the test of time, as our heart warming real life friendship stories will prove.
My best friend is two years senior to me and yet we have a great bonding with each other. We talk for hours, care without limitation, talk without hesitation, we fight; we share deepest of our secrets. We were in same school but the year we became friends he was about to pass out. Felt bad and had a fear of losing him. That was wrong of me and till today we continue to share same bond without a sign of love and attraction. He is the reason for my smile and part of my sadness. We never try and make things complicated. We sort things out when there is a huge fight, which shows understanding. The kind of compatibility we have is different what i share with other of my male friends.
As said by Oscar Wilde, ‘anybody can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathize with friend’s success.’
Priority that matters. Yes he is my priority and i consider myself lucky to have such a wonderful friend in my life.
a quote that i would dedicate to him; ‘The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.’
He meets the needs of all my varying moods. He is the angel of all my purest thoughts, the guide the guardian of all my moral being.
Well whatever i am writing here is straight from my heart and its not made up.
The poem which i wrote for him :
Just a beginning…
A step towards friendship,
We had suddenly taken.
My day started with your high-five,
And talking to you became my favourite pastime.
Your chocolate boy looks and weird smile,
Became your patent style.
Our friendship bloomed,
Like poppies in June.
Counting you among my special friend,
Trusting you till the end.
‘Teri haar ke burai pe daante wo dost
Gam ki ho dhoop to saaya bane tera wo dost
Naache bhi wo teri khushi mein
Arre yaaron dosti badi hi hasseen hai
Yeh na ho to kya phir
Bolo yeh zindagi hai....’
He does all this when it happens with me.
Well i can go on and on when it comes to him.
Thus, Let me end up by saying that no matter what elders say or stranger’s comments make sure that you don’t let go your best of buddies out of your life. If you have a huge fight, don’t stay quiet fight for it so that the relationship does not fade away.
Boys are the ones who will listen to girl’s problem with open heart. If she tells some other girl she may not listen to her full heartedly because she herself must be going through infinite number of problems. Boys do not compete with girls and stand by you at each level. They speak to you and share with you everything because they know girl’s can keep secrets with themselves and are understandable. There are many more such examples.
Therefore, i come to an conclusion that girls and boys are the best match for best friends. I am lucky to have one.
Monday, December 26, 2011
Saturday, December 10, 2011
The Month of Joy, Harmony and Forgiving...
So now is come our joyful feast. Let every man be jolly.
Drown sorrow in a cup of wine, and let us all be merry.
Its December guys, the month of celebrations, the month of joy, harmony, and forgiving. Surely, it makes everyone feel differently from all the other months. I do feel different.
December is the month of
Bitter cold _
Autumn wind _
Shivering lips.
December is like a fistful of sand. To some December is an – all – emotion, joy or respite for others.
People will breathe a sigh of relief that the year has come to an end, and giving them opportunity to start afresh. But there are disappointments that a year has whizzed past leaving unachieved goals and dreams.
‘now at the far end of the year time has passed and left your heart with certain empty places.’
Unlike human beings nature keeps giving the erring party occasions to make up. After all its we who find hope amidst despair.
I personally feel that just like waves come and go, time also come and go. We just need to make things right if it’s not, in the upcoming future and start all fresh.
Energy, sweat, blood, fun and toil _ everything absorbed in the year that is shortly to become history. Some needs a break now. Some going to plan to start anew. Others are going to make resolutions to make the upcoming year perfect.
Well its different to me. When December has already approached, I notice that I hymn Christmas carols, wait eagerly for my birthday, make plans with friends, have fun and I’ m never down and always have a smile on my face. It always treats me well.
Just hear those sleigh bells
ringing and jing ting tingaling too
Come on its lovely weather for
A sleigh ride together with you.
Come on its lovely weather for
A sleigh ride together with you."
- Christmas Carol, Sleigh Bells Ringing
Rudolph the red _ nosed reindeer
Had a very shiny nose.
And if you ever saw him,
You would even say it glows....
Well there is no end to carols. I would end up by saying; December gives us the opportunity to set right what went wrong. Reinforcing our belief in a happy future, December sways us in its swing of optimism. The wonderful month of December helps us to believe, to love, and to understand. It is up to us to keep up to its expectations and do our bit to make the world (our home) a joyous place.
"May you have the gladness of Christmas which is hope;
The spirit of Christmas which is peace;
The heart of Christmas which is love."
- Ada V. Hendricks
Wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year.
May Santa fills your heart with spirit, joy and love.
Three cheers to December month.!!!
Drown sorrow in a cup of wine, and let us all be merry.
Its December guys, the month of celebrations, the month of joy, harmony, and forgiving. Surely, it makes everyone feel differently from all the other months. I do feel different.
December is the month of
Bitter cold _
Autumn wind _
Shivering lips.
December is like a fistful of sand. To some December is an – all – emotion, joy or respite for others.
People will breathe a sigh of relief that the year has come to an end, and giving them opportunity to start afresh. But there are disappointments that a year has whizzed past leaving unachieved goals and dreams.
‘now at the far end of the year time has passed and left your heart with certain empty places.’
Unlike human beings nature keeps giving the erring party occasions to make up. After all its we who find hope amidst despair.
I personally feel that just like waves come and go, time also come and go. We just need to make things right if it’s not, in the upcoming future and start all fresh.
Energy, sweat, blood, fun and toil _ everything absorbed in the year that is shortly to become history. Some needs a break now. Some going to plan to start anew. Others are going to make resolutions to make the upcoming year perfect.
Well its different to me. When December has already approached, I notice that I hymn Christmas carols, wait eagerly for my birthday, make plans with friends, have fun and I’ m never down and always have a smile on my face. It always treats me well.
Just hear those sleigh bells
ringing and jing ting tingaling too
Come on its lovely weather for
A sleigh ride together with you.
Come on its lovely weather for
A sleigh ride together with you."
- Christmas Carol, Sleigh Bells Ringing
Rudolph the red _ nosed reindeer
Had a very shiny nose.
And if you ever saw him,
You would even say it glows....
Well there is no end to carols. I would end up by saying; December gives us the opportunity to set right what went wrong. Reinforcing our belief in a happy future, December sways us in its swing of optimism. The wonderful month of December helps us to believe, to love, and to understand. It is up to us to keep up to its expectations and do our bit to make the world (our home) a joyous place.
"May you have the gladness of Christmas which is hope;
The spirit of Christmas which is peace;
The heart of Christmas which is love."
- Ada V. Hendricks
Wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year.
May Santa fills your heart with spirit, joy and love.
Three cheers to December month.!!!
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Its been so long since I last blogged. The last few months have been hectic, pressure of studies, school events, exams, ups and downs in life and many such things.All these even didn't allow me to think about writing.
But in the moment of silence my heart reminds me that I am getting diverted from the things that i love to do. Amidst of all this I am missing what i should not miss at this age. I have been so busy with my studies, thinking about others and making others happy, i forgot what I am, and what I am missing.
Time fleets with a blink. Today when I sit beside a window sill and see the rain falling and see the kids making their paper boats float in the water,I go back to the time when I was a cute little kid.
The memories are blurred but I do remember certain things.
Those days i had little knowledge about outside world and was unaware of the pressure and the worries which I face everyday at present. I was a toy to those who love me the most even today. From one lap to another I was passed like a 'pillow' but with an extra care. I know Its funny.!!
Being the first child of my family I got pampered, demands got fulfilled, parents gave me all the joy and happiness without me even saying a word. They understood just by looking at my eyes what my dreams were at that moment and today I am so confused as what to do in future. Those days were simpler and as we grow up we make our life so 'complicated'.
The negative reels fell short to capture the mesmerizing memories of the childhood and today we don't even have time to pose for a picture. When we click pictures today we do it for fun but we never realized we are making beautiful memories.
Sitting on my Dad's shoulder, lying on mother's lap, fighting with siblings, felt like I am enjoying in the Paradise. It was a idyllic state for me.
Being only a teenager i miss my mom feeding me, my dads scolding, my brother irritating me. I have not yet stepped into college and this is the scenario and I wonder what will happen when i step into college and will be extremely busy in making my career. Is this just a beginning?
As always being a late learner i realized that we won't get a life to live again so its better that apart from fulfilling our dreams and reaching our goals, live life and enjoy life. Whenever we are free we should just spent some time with our parents, with ourselves, with friends , and forget everything else. Then again in our old age when we sit near window sill we should have a smile on our face while going back into the time when we were young.
OUR LIFE SHOULD BE WORTH WATCHING...KYUNKI ZINDAGI NAA MILEGI DOOBARA AND KYA PATA KAL HO NA HO. THEREFORE LIVE EACH DAY LIKE ITS YOUR LAST DAY.!!
'some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle and end,
life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing whats going to happen next.
Delicious ambiguity...'
Gilda Radner
But in the moment of silence my heart reminds me that I am getting diverted from the things that i love to do. Amidst of all this I am missing what i should not miss at this age. I have been so busy with my studies, thinking about others and making others happy, i forgot what I am, and what I am missing.
Time fleets with a blink. Today when I sit beside a window sill and see the rain falling and see the kids making their paper boats float in the water,I go back to the time when I was a cute little kid.
The memories are blurred but I do remember certain things.
Those days i had little knowledge about outside world and was unaware of the pressure and the worries which I face everyday at present. I was a toy to those who love me the most even today. From one lap to another I was passed like a 'pillow' but with an extra care. I know Its funny.!!
Being the first child of my family I got pampered, demands got fulfilled, parents gave me all the joy and happiness without me even saying a word. They understood just by looking at my eyes what my dreams were at that moment and today I am so confused as what to do in future. Those days were simpler and as we grow up we make our life so 'complicated'.
The negative reels fell short to capture the mesmerizing memories of the childhood and today we don't even have time to pose for a picture. When we click pictures today we do it for fun but we never realized we are making beautiful memories.
Sitting on my Dad's shoulder, lying on mother's lap, fighting with siblings, felt like I am enjoying in the Paradise. It was a idyllic state for me.
Being only a teenager i miss my mom feeding me, my dads scolding, my brother irritating me. I have not yet stepped into college and this is the scenario and I wonder what will happen when i step into college and will be extremely busy in making my career. Is this just a beginning?
As always being a late learner i realized that we won't get a life to live again so its better that apart from fulfilling our dreams and reaching our goals, live life and enjoy life. Whenever we are free we should just spent some time with our parents, with ourselves, with friends , and forget everything else. Then again in our old age when we sit near window sill we should have a smile on our face while going back into the time when we were young.
OUR LIFE SHOULD BE WORTH WATCHING...KYUNKI ZINDAGI NAA MILEGI DOOBARA AND KYA PATA KAL HO NA HO. THEREFORE LIVE EACH DAY LIKE ITS YOUR LAST DAY.!!
'some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle and end,
life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing whats going to happen next.
Delicious ambiguity...'
Gilda Radner
Monday, March 7, 2011
Young girls who are both simple and sweet are rarely found on this planet.They don't get the Respect they deserve. Jealousy, Arrogance and Selfishness is in the hoardings everywhere. Humble, Loyalty and Respect is hardly in anyone. About only one third of girls have Durability, Resilience and the Excellence to combat the evil world.In day to day life she has constantly been ignored. No one sees the emotions and feelings behind the heart. The people especially the boys are influenced by the physical appearance, It's high time now that girls should take steps against the evil actions.
Me being a girl, I have few questions to boys...
Will you be able to carry seven pound baby in your stomach for nine months? the answer to this is NO, you will die out of pain.
Can you maintain several realtionships with different people without hurting them??
No you will never be able to succeed in this.
Lastly will you be able to work, cook, look after the family and fulfill your children requirements at one tine? the answer to this is also the same big NO.
So its very late for you to realize that girls have more responsibilities. Instead of harming them the boys should appreciate their responsibilities and support them.
Me being a girl, I have few questions to boys...
Will you be able to carry seven pound baby in your stomach for nine months? the answer to this is NO, you will die out of pain.
Can you maintain several realtionships with different people without hurting them??
No you will never be able to succeed in this.
Lastly will you be able to work, cook, look after the family and fulfill your children requirements at one tine? the answer to this is also the same big NO.
So its very late for you to realize that girls have more responsibilities. Instead of harming them the boys should appreciate their responsibilities and support them.
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