Words are too less...

friendship is so much more about physical intimacy. It is about being comfortable, and sharing good and bad times, and just connecting with another human being.
Today there remains a question that can a girl and boy be best of friends rather than a fool lover?
I would say yes that a guy and a girl could be the best of friends.
There are people who comment that a guy approaches a girl only to fulfill his sexual desire. But that is so not true. There are teen’s even adults who share good rapport with the opposite sex than the same.
Whether it is relatives or friends stay in the presence of those who help you expand and move away from those who make you wilt. I would rather say True friendships stand the test of time, as our heart warming real life friendship stories will prove.
My best friend is two years senior to me and yet we have a great bonding with each other. We talk for hours, care without limitation, talk without hesitation, we fight; we share deepest of our secrets. We were in same school but the year we became friends he was about to pass out. Felt bad and had a fear of losing him. That was wrong of me and till today we continue to share same bond without a sign of love and attraction. He is the reason for my smile and part of my sadness. We never try and make things complicated. We sort things out when there is a huge fight, which shows understanding. The kind of compatibility we have is different what i share with other of my male friends.
As said by Oscar Wilde, ‘anybody can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathize with friend’s success.’
Priority that matters. Yes he is my priority and i consider myself lucky to have such a wonderful friend in my life.
a quote that i would dedicate to him; ‘The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.’


He meets the needs of all my varying moods. He is the angel of all my purest thoughts, the guide the guardian of all my moral being.
Well whatever i am writing here is straight from my heart and its not made up.
The poem which i wrote for him :
Just a beginning…
A step towards friendship,
We had suddenly taken.
My day started with your high-five,
And talking to you became my favourite pastime.
Your chocolate boy looks and weird smile,
Became your patent style.
Our friendship bloomed,
Like poppies in June.
Counting you among my special friend,
Trusting you till the end.
‘Teri haar ke burai pe daante wo dost
Gam ki ho dhoop to saaya bane tera wo dost
Naache bhi wo teri khushi mein
Arre yaaron dosti badi hi hasseen hai
Yeh na ho to kya phir
Bolo yeh zindagi hai....’
He does all this when it happens with me.
Well i can go on and on when it comes to him.
Thus, Let me end up by saying that no matter what elders say or stranger’s comments make sure that you don’t let go your best of buddies out of your life. If you have a huge fight, don’t stay quiet fight for it so that the relationship does not fade away.
Boys are the ones who will listen to girl’s problem with open heart. If she tells some other girl she may not listen to her full heartedly because she herself must be going through infinite number of problems. Boys do not compete with girls and stand by you at each level. They speak to you and share with you everything because they know girl’s can keep secrets with themselves and are understandable. There are many more such examples.
Therefore, i come to an conclusion that girls and boys are the best match for best friends. I am lucky to have one.

The Month of Joy, Harmony and Forgiving...

So now is come our joyful feast. Let every man be jolly.
Drown sorrow in a cup of wine, and let us all be merry.
Its December guys, the month of celebrations, the month of joy, harmony, and forgiving. Surely, it makes everyone feel differently from all the other months. I do feel different.
December is the month of
Bitter cold _
Autumn wind _
Shivering lips.
December is like a fistful of sand. To some December is an – all – emotion, joy or respite for others.
People will breathe a sigh of relief that the year has come to an end, and giving them opportunity to start afresh. But there are disappointments that a year has whizzed past leaving unachieved goals and dreams.
‘now at the far end of the year time has passed and left your heart with certain empty places.’
Unlike human beings nature keeps giving the erring party occasions to make up. After all its we who find hope amidst despair.
I personally feel that just like waves come and go, time also come and go. We just need to make things right if it’s not, in the upcoming future and start all fresh.
Energy, sweat, blood, fun and toil _ everything absorbed in the year that is shortly to become history. Some needs a break now. Some going to plan to start anew. Others are going to make resolutions to make the upcoming year perfect.
Well its different to me. When December has already approached, I notice that I hymn Christmas carols, wait eagerly for my birthday, make plans with friends, have fun and I’ m never down and always have a smile on my face. It always treats me well.
Just hear those sleigh bells
ringing and jing ting tingaling too
Come on its lovely weather for
A sleigh ride together with you.
Come on its lovely weather for
A sleigh ride together with you."
- Christmas Carol, Sleigh Bells Ringing
Rudolph the red _ nosed reindeer
Had a very shiny nose.
And if you ever saw him,
You would even say it glows....
Well there is no end to carols. I would end up by saying; December gives us the opportunity to set right what went wrong. Reinforcing our belief in a happy future, December sways us in its swing of optimism. The wonderful month of December helps us to believe, to love, and to understand. It is up to us to keep up to its expectations and do our bit to make the world (our home) a joyous place.
"May you have the gladness of Christmas which is hope;
The spirit of Christmas which is peace;
The heart of Christmas which is love."
- Ada V. Hendricks

Wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year.
May Santa fills your heart with spirit, joy and love.
Three cheers to December month.!!!